Emma has been blind for one month today, It’s OK to cry
Hi everyone:
I am reporting on our Emma. She went totally blind, one month ago today, 3-9-08. Emma is healing from her eye removal fantastically. I have to pat myself on the back for that one. My Mom and I watched her like a hawk. Emma’s navigation progress is amazing. She is really finding her way around our home with little to no problems. From everything I have read this is really fast progress. Do not feel bad if your blind hound is still stumbling in this area at one month. All hounds are different and have different time lines, just like people. This brings me to Emma’s mental state. This is where she is struggling the most. I can tell she is depressed and confused. Every morning when she wakes up and looks in my direction I can tell she hopes her blindness is a bad dream. It just makes me want to cry. Believe me, it is OK to cry. If Emma could cry I know she would. I know Chaps would as well. He is desperate to play with her and she is frightened of him when he gets in his rowdy boy play mood. The homeostasis of our pack is out of whack and none of us like it.
I am here to report how we are doing and these are the truthful facts. I hope that this helps others. This is going to be a long process and we are dedicated to helping Emma through it.
Remember, if you ask for people’s opinions or advise your are going to get it. Some of it may help, and some of it may hurt. Pick and choose what helps and forget the negative comments.
I am sure every month will get better. Emma will acclimate to her new life. Chaps will learn how to play on her terms, and me? I will probably learn the most, from our Emma. She is turning into a great teacher. Her class room (her blog) has endless seats. Pull up a chair and join her life lessons.
Emma going down the back steps all by herself, one week after going totally blind! Click the pic for a bit more information.
More Later, from seeing with your heart and nose…Emma, Chaps and Cat
I love you Emma. You will get your self assurance back very soon! Your are lucky to have a significant other and a Mommy and Grandma and Granddaddy who love you very much! What a pretty, lucky, sweet girl!! You can do it, one paw at the time!
Aw, Emma, I’m sure this must all be so confusing for you, but I hope in time things will get better. It’s great that you’re getting around your home so well after just a month though!
We luv you baroootiful,
Scully & Mary
God bless you all , I know it is hard. When Carrie went blind I cried for her too. it took about a month and she was finding her way around as if she could see. Hugs ken
Emma’s tenacity and courage are so inspiring…as is your patience and love Cat. Thank you for documenting your experiences so thoroughly. Emma’s story is so touching and I am learning so much.
With love always – Kerri and Roy
Cat, I am crying. I know Emma is doing so well and will continue to get better. She is one barootiful girl. I believe this is the hardest for you. I can imagine how I would feel. Emma is so lucky to have her special family and soooo much love.
We love you,
Kip, Gus and Bonnie
Thanks Kerri and Kip. It is so nice to read your comments. It makes me feel better. Love, Cat, Chaps and Emma